Friday, September 12, 2014

10 Things You Should Never Say to Your Wife

10 Things You Should Never Say to Your Wife 
 

 4 wedding facts

If you've completed a year or more of your marriage, you would definitely agree with these 10 points listed below. There are times when husbands think they're being smart, sincere or witty but in reality it's just plain annoying for women. Here are 10 things women hate listening to from their husband...

"Your best friend still looks gorgeous"


Say this to yourself but not to your wife or else you had it. You are only going to be inviting problems for yourself by making that comment. It's better for you to gawk in secret.  
 

"Why don't you ever wear stuff like she's wearing?"


For most wives, especially moms, the days of skinny pants and mini skirts are long gone. Comparing your wife to the rare mommy who still has the nerve to slip on skimpy outfits will only get you in trouble. So, its better you remain quite. 


"You're turning exactly into your mother"


It's a reality no woman is ever ready or willing to face, whether or not it's true. If its true in your wive's case, let it be! You need not say it ten times. Her mom wasn't a zombie, wasn't she? And if not her mom who else will she turn into?  


"Allright, I'll babysit"  

1.     
What do you mean when you say that? How many times do you need to be reminded, it's not babysitting if they are your own kids. So, stop saying that for God's sake!
 

2.     
 

"Damn! I can't find my..."  

3.      Let's get real. You can't find it because you didn't look that hard. So, move it, open your eyes and look for it.
 

4.       

"Are you going to wear chappals with your skirt?"   

5.     
Honesty is said to be the best policy, agreed! But that doesn't mean you start deciding what is she supposed to wear with what. No way! It's her skirt, her chappals and she knows how to team it up. So leave her alone or find some other way to delicately point it out.
 
 

6.       

"The one who makes more money should do less housework."   

7.     
Who are you, Don Draper? The Mad Men era ended, like some, 50 years ago so come on! grab a  broom now and get going.
 
 

"Don't worry, I'll try and fix it."   

8.     
Really? Then what were you waiting for all this while? And if you've ruined or borken her favourite stuff, you got no choice but to fix it NOW.
 
 

9.      "But I Just changed the diaper this morning."    

10.    
Really? You did? How sweet! And you think your darling daughter is wearing the same diaper since morning? Children pee more often, hope you know that! So, its your turn again!
 

11.     "Lets plan for another kid honey"   

12.       
Of course, the person who does the least amount of cooking, cleaning, and nurturing would think adding to the brood was no big deal. Let's see if you feel that way after playing Mr. Mom for a week.


8 Things Women Desire in Their Life Partner 

 

Qualities women look for

Some people say a woman’s mind is a mystery, which cannot be understood. This is quite true and so, we help you men understand their needs by listing down some important qualities women look for in their life partner…

·         Honesty

·         This is right on top in the list and this means being honest about everything. If your partner asks you ‘Do you like my hair?’ you could say, “I love it, but I liked it more when it was longer.” If you’re honest in a relationship, your woman will always trust and respect you. But, if she gets to know that you ever lied to her, it’ll be very difficult for you to build that trust again. 
 

·         Responsible

·         Every woman wants a partner who’s more responsible and also confident about taking on responsibilities after marriage. They want someone who’s caring, loving and one who promises to be there for them in times of trouble. This doesn’t mean women are weak, they maybe sensitive.
 

·         Successful

·         If you’re a lazy lump with no goals in life, forget it! You’re going to stay single all your life. Women don’t like men who do not take life seriously. They prefer men who have certain goals in life and are career-oriented. So, is it time to change your attitude towards life?   

·         Trustworthy

·         This is very important in a relationship. If you do not trust your man/woman, your life can be hell. A woman always expects her partner to trust her and support her in all her decisions. You need to stand by her when she’s going through tough times.
 

·         Reliable

·         You’ve got to be reliable if you want your partner to be with you lifelong. If she plans an evening meal together and you turn up at 10pm after promising her you’ll be home by 8pm, you’re obviously not reliable. We agree, work is important but your wife is equally important. So, you need to learn to balance your work and personal life.
 

·         Committed

·         To a man this may feel like he is being forced into commitment, but commitment in a marriage is very important if you want it to last for a lifetime. Commitment requires you to explore, develop and nurture a relationship. Also, it has to be a mutual agreement or it doesn’t work.
 

·         Simplicity

·         Simplicity is a common factor every woman expects in her man. He should be transparent enough when it comes to sharing his views, ideas, etc with her. This help’s a couple understand each other better. When we say simplicity, we don’t just mean looks but also your nature.
 

·         Loving and Caring 

·         Every women wants to have a loving and caring partner. In simple words, this means even if your woman makes a mistake, you aren’t allowed to shout at her, especially in front of others. Instead, explain to her in a loving manner. Women expect their partners to make them smile again if they are unwell or feeling low. So, take care. 

 

 



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